So as i navigate this world of music, erotica and entrepreneurism, I find organizations that really seem to break (or create) the mold and carve themselves a new one. Kink.com is such an organization. Two years ago I was introduced to wiredpussy.com by my friend Dana Dearmond. Dana’s wife Donna is the webmaster there and after seeing it, things changed for me dramatically. I saw that something so intense and out of the “norms” of society could be enjoyed freely and with positive results.

I my tastes are pretty tame (though they are growing nicely thank you) and I usually participate on a voyeuristic level, like watching my actors/actresses really enjoying themselves in a fun and safe atmosphere. But knowing these people are here have made it safe for me to think “if these people can find their kink, and that its this extreme (to me mind you) then so can I”. Since then I’ve filmed 15 scenes with a dozen or so actresses learning that we can all find our place and taste (i.e. kink) if given permission by our peers. Thanks Kink.com for that permission. I’ll use it wisely.